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A life well lived. Mom died New Year's morning at 8:26 at 99 years, 4 months. Ironically, her younger brother died on New Year's Day 7 years ago. For the past few days, she had been declining rapidly, I knew the end was near. Hospice was coming out. I was with her when she died; hospice arrived about 5 minutes later.

Mom married her childhood sweetheart after he came home from WWII, then had him away for the Korean conflict. She was the first in her family to go to college and taught high school biology, Spanish, and history for several years before kids. Then when she was 42, she lost my Dad to a heart attack and became responsible for raising 14 and 9 year old sons. I'm the younger.

Mom was fiercely independent and opinionated, living a full and active life, involved in a variety of church and community help organizations. She was also fairly healthy until about 5 years ago when Alzheimer's raised its ugly head but progressed rather slowly. She also became legally blind from macular degenetation and had to give up her avid reading, especially history plus give up driving. She moved into my house in California in 2021, and I became her primary/sole caregiver.

In March 2025, she was hospitalized with nth stage congestive heart failure and given days to live. With medicine changes she beat those odds.

On June 14, she insisted on attending the no kings rally in downtown LA, so we went and the organizers treated her like royalty. Free chicken tacos, and yes, she grasped the meaning. She was active enough while living in Irvine that she met most of our local politicians including Porter, Min and both mayors.

One morning in September 2025, she had what was probably a stroke and didn't recognize me. She went on hospice and was given a few days. She improved a little and until this morning knew who I was. She fully comprehended the meaning of her yes on prop 50 vote. She hated Trump and was quite vocal about it.

I'm glad I provided her care the last few years but am looking forward to moving on to the next phase of my life, but there is a big hole in my heart right at the moment. But there is a time....

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Smokejumper Sam Forstag is reportedly set to announce a bid for Mt-1 later today:

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/democrats-blue-wave-montana-first-congressional-district-sam-forstag/#

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